Sunday, May 16, 2010

I really like this one girl so if I bought her some flowers and a nice card would that make me look desperate?

Is buying a girl you like just a simple gift like flowers and a card make a guy look desperate??

I really like this one girl so if I bought her some flowers and a nice card would that make me look desperate?
Its only desperate if you go overboard and do it all the time. It sounds like a nice gift. If she likes you and goes out with you and you want to keep surprising her, Id say once a month is not too desperate looking for that kind of gift giving.
Reply:awww....no very sweet and romantic...DO IT! she'll love it. %26lt;3
Reply:It could come off as a little much, but if she knows you like her and she's into it, then yes it's really sweet. Now if you know for a fact that this girl does not like you, send nothing. If you just don't know either way, just send her flowers. The card is a little much for me.
Reply:It's not a simple gift to tell you the truth. Actually I'm pretty sure this girl has been won over without the guy buying this particular girl a damn thing. If she's not your girlfriend (I don't even care if she's your date) DON'T DO IT.
Reply:Yes. Very much so.
Reply:nOoOo it doesnt.. it shows u r very sweet
Reply:thats a good idea go for it :)
Reply:It kind of depends on the girl. As for me, I see no problem with flowers and a card. Personally I find that very sweet... I don't really see it as desperate.
Reply:No. We like stuff like that. Brownie points for you
Reply:No it does not make you look desperate. I think its really sweet of you to romance her in that way.
Reply:Nope, it makes u look cute.
Reply:Honestly, I think it is very sweet.
Reply:Card and flowers is a bit overboard. If you haven't approached her, go for the one or two flowers approach. It's not big and showy, and cards leave you thinking "What do I do with it now?" where flowers can be put in a vase and admired or even carried. Maybe put a small card from the florist inside that says "Go to a movie with me sometime?"





It's not too pushy, shows a touch of romance, shows you thought about what to give, and puts the ball into her court with a clear message from you.





This approach swept me off my feet far more than guys with a dozen roses.
Reply:Leave the flowers and card for her somewhere... That way it gives her a chance to take it all in, think for a bit without pressure. Very sweet idea though, do it!
Reply:no it's really sweet, just make sure she appreciates it, if not screw her.
Reply:I don't know how long you have known her. Are you dating? Wait until you feel that you two are going somewhere. Then she will really like it. It is good for guys to bring flowers without an occasion.

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