Should I send my ex a bday present? Card? Flowers?

My ex (went out for a yr) and I still got along really well (talk for hrs often - practically every day) and had hooked up occasionally...after 7 months of this, I decided it was time I needed some space to move on properly. Now i dont wanna get back with her.. but i still dont like hearing about her new guy/s etc. and shes shown some jealous tendencies towards girls i see. I still care for her..as a close friend or even more but im certain i dont want it to go back to a relationship.





I have removed all her contact info from anything that is easily accessible to me..ie phone messenger etc. to get out of the comfort rutt.





But its her bday in a month.. I know im not totally over her.. (slowly getting there).. Will sending a gift/card/flowers be a setback for either of us (I dont intend on going back to the daily talks again)?





She really wanted to keep me in her life but I just cant be friends after a relationship...so the cut off was my decision.

Should I send my ex a bday present? Card? Flowers?
you have to decide.. how important is she in your life.. which position does she take??.. no one can decide that for you.


You decide.. and do the same to let her know.. simple.
Reply:That can be kind of tricky...presents and flowers?..I'm pretty sure you're asking this question because you don't really want to pass up her bday without giving anything at all....but still a present or even flowers I don't think those are good. Flowers are quite meaningful to a girl...and more at that if its from an ex. It would mix things up too much. Just a sweet simple card wishing her a happy birthday and etc. would be nice and friendly-thoughtful. good luck!
Reply:If your trying to cut her off then No, don't get her anything. Otherwise your just going to lead her on.
Reply:You don`t want her in your life so why do you think you should send her something for her bd? It is a bad idea.


You don`t want to have anything around you that reminds you of her so move on.


Get out into the world and meet new people. Join something.


Every time you feel like you want to talk to her just call your mom or sibling.