How will I know that my boyfriend really loves me? he doesn't give me anything as a gift even flowers.nothing.

Just my experience.





If he talks about his weaknesses, fears, insecurities and ambitions infront of you freely he really love you.


Gifts dont always mean he love you. Its the easiest trick in the book.


I was exclusively dating my girlfriend for 7 years (now happily married to her for 3 years). I have probably given her flowers on only 3-4 occations in the last 10 years.


She is the only one I talk to with regarding the things mentioned above.

How will I know that my boyfriend really loves me? he doesn't give me anything as a gift even flowers.nothing.
make him a present... but a hand made one... and tell him that was made for him... and someday you will like to have something made from his hands or not to care as a gift of love...
Reply:I have that same issue too. My boyfriend never gets me anything. But it's ok if he doesn't because if he does love you and I mean really love you, he'll show you that he does somehow. Also you should just know if he does.
Reply:Love is not only about gifts. Especially if your are poor or have a lot of financial obligations. But a lot of things that express love that mean a lot dont cost a lot - cards, a special note or letter, someone making a bath for you after a long day, etc. Flowers are not cheap...depending on what kind you get. And if he does not have much maybe he may feel bad about not being able to get you anything. So you should do a few things for him to show love - give him a massage, take lunch to him at his job one day, make a card for him, or mail him a care package. Then see if he does anything in return. If he is a "Parasite" he will simply take your gifts and give you nothing. If he is a "Symbiotic Parasite" then he will take your gift and he will give you a gift as well. Symbiotic Parasites help one another and do for one another much like people in real relationships do.
Reply:How old are you? Ask him to help you with a problem and see if he really cares. Plus you cant eat flowers. Ask for something of value.
Reply:gifts are not perimeter of true love