I am seprated from my wife for 5 months, valentine day is coming...Should I give my wife flowers and gift?

I am seprated from my wife for 5 months, valentine day is coming...Should I give my wife flowers and gift?


We are Muslim marriage couple, should I give my wife flowers and gift after 5 months no gifts to her and on valentine day should I give her flowers and gift.





What do you think? Advice?

I am seprated from my wife for 5 months, valentine day is coming...Should I give my wife flowers and gift?
...a gift and flowers, are nice...


...enjoy!
Reply:yes give her as you say it well be kind sensaton from you to one you had spend with her many nice times .this may be return love in heart of both of you
Reply:I dont know if you beat her or threatened to kill her or something but yes, send her some flowers, not a package, she might think its a bomb.
Reply:Is it your wish to reconsile with your wife? If it is, you need to show her that you want to be with her and are ready to set aside your differences and try to make your marriage work. If not, do nothing.
Reply:I do not know why you are seperated from her therefore I cannot advise you if it would be creepy or not.
Reply:Give her your love. What better gift. Valentines is actually based on Saint Valentine. I believe he was put in prison, but still married people through the jail bars. I am Christian and you are muslim, but love is still love! Give her your heart. Ask God to forgive you. Then you forgive yourself (we are not perfect) forgive yourself. Then forgive her. The past is the past. Your time is now! Give her your true honest white heart.
Reply:No. Not if you are actually separated. If you are just in different parts of the world, but not emotionally separated, then you definately should give her something. You are emotionally separated, giving her something will be seen as a desperate attempt to get her back and probably annoy her very badly so would have the opposite intended effect and only make things worse.
Reply:Somali,


My wife really would prefer to have chocolate or something to eat over flowers. She gets upset when they die. I would send her a nice birthday card and write a nice little message inside telling her how you feel about her. The nicest things sometimes are unexpected. Have a wonderful evening. I hope that things all work out.


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Reply:why not hunt her down and cut off her feet. She will burn in hell for leaving you, and Allah will be so proud of you for it.





You will find other women to be your sex slave and servant soon enough. You could stone her as well. Heck the whole nieborhood's male membership will be glad to help.
Reply:have you before given gifts /flowers on other valentine days? and you still in love with your wife, does see speak to you in the 5 months? it could be unwanted by your wife. also it might show her that you still think about her and she may see it as a sign to get back together. if that's what you want then go for it.
Reply:Send her flowers if you still care for her.
Reply:depends on why you where separated.





If you want to get back together and you think she will appreciate the gift, then by all means yes. Otherwise no.





depending on how strict a Muslim she is, you might like to note that Valentines Day is a Catholic custom, and so she might misinterpret that if she is not accustomed to that tradition.





whatever you do, follow your heart
Reply:I would call her first to see how she is and see if there is hope of a reconcilliation. If she responds favorably then yes buy the flowers and gift and good luck.
Reply:Move on. The best gift for both of you.
Reply:If you ever want to be with her again, you'd better.
Reply:Why not? It may or may not have your desired effect, though. Be prepared for whatever reaction she may have.
Reply:buy her a tarsier, if that doesnt work i dont know what will.


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Reply:I don't really know much about Muslim customs, but, if





a) You're the one that decided to separate.


b) You actually want to get back together with her.





I think it's a decent idea.
Reply:Munkee think if you want to reconcile, then yes.
Reply:Here's an easy site to find a thoughtful yet inexpensive gift to have delivered http://www.Online-Florists.Reviews-n-Rat... There are special online coupons for flower delivery, special gift ideas, and fancy chocolates too. I know flowers and chocolates are traditional, but that's what us ladies like! :)
Reply:It sounds like you maybe just wasting your money.


Move on.


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Reply:I did not think muslims got separated why is she gone ...
Reply:That would be a very good idea!
Reply:Depends on the relationship you have with her. Was it an ugly seperation? Was it a mutual agreement? What do you think her reaction will be? What do you want her reaction to be?


Alot of factors.....Ultimately up to you to answer.........
Reply:Well, I'm a Christian. I send my love to you. Perhaps you can send your love to your wife regardless. How it is received may be out of your control but do it with a good heart.
Reply:If you feel like it.