The "designated" gift is flowers for girls what is it for guys if any?

why's the man gotta buy stuff like that and supposed t o hold doors for girls and all that jazz when all of these woman are pushing to be considerd equal

The "designated" gift is flowers for girls what is it for guys if any?
Guys don't have to buy anything. It's a romantic gesture and a way of thanking the girl for going out with the guy. It puts things on a good note to begin the evening.





If I am invited to a guys house for dinner or whatever, I usually bring the wine.
Reply:More imporant than the gift is the thought and motivation that it represents.





I think your questions confuse "obligation" with "regard"





While some degree of self preservation seems to always factor into our motivation, your view that these actions are just obligations gives your questions a tone of shallowness, resentment and emotional immaturity. (I am not intending to insult you- I just want to point out that this is not a good approach if you want to endear yourself to a wider selection of females) You will be happy to learn that a man is not obligated to "buy stuff" for a woman, nor is he "supposed" to "hold doors for girls and all that jazz".





The act of gift giving or extending a courtesy is meaningless to the receiver unless it is performed out of a sense of regard. Men who sincerely treat women and others with regard and thoughtfulness tend to also possess a greater sense of self-respect and confidence in themselves- they are not threatened by a woman's success or desire for equality, they recognize the value of creating harmony and happiness around them, and consequently, they tend to be much more attractive to women.
Reply:The designated gift for guys? Submission, of course.

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