I am seprated from my wife for 5 months, valentine day is coming...Should I give my wife flowers and gift?

I am seprated from my wife for 5 months, valentine day is coming...Should I give my wife flowers and gift?


We are Muslim marriage couple, should I give my wife flowers and gift after 5 months no gifts to her and on valentine day should I give her flowers and gift.





What do you think? Advice?

I am seprated from my wife for 5 months, valentine day is coming...Should I give my wife flowers and gift?
Yes do it. For sure. It would let her know there is hope.
Reply:i think that that might be a nice gesture on your part. :) i sure she wouldnt be upset to recieve that from you and it might make her feel nice. I think it would be nice. something simple.
Reply:I would have to say no, you are getting ready to send her mixed signals especially if this is not part of your plan to work things out between the two of you.








Good intentions, but think about what this will mean to her.
Reply:its something you want to do not what we think you should but since you are thinking about it it will not hurt will it? why not
Reply:if you still love her and would wish to still be together then yes, do what your heart tells you. you wont get her back unless you dont put some effort in.


or if there's a chance you may reconcile, then yes do it.!!





however, if you dont actually wish to be together, then leave well alone- you dont need to pretend, if you dont feel that way, or dont feel obliged just if she's upset etc, you cant give her false hope.


im not sure that made any sense, goodnite. bit late.
Reply:Please don't give her anything unless you have an intention of reconciliation if you aren't getting back together don't. she will get the wrong idea and then get her feelings hurt and i am sure that you don't want to hurt her feelings.
Reply:I do not guess that it would hurt anything if the two of you are still on good terms. Giving a few flowers never hurt anyone. I wouldn't go all out and buy dozens of flowers but a single red rose would be nice.
Reply:depends on how close the two of you are. if you want to, do it. are you wanting to get back together?





maybe just a card.

erythema