I am seprated from my wife for 5 months, valentine day is coming...Should I give my wife flowers and gift?
We are Muslim marriage couple, should I give my wife flowers and gift after 5 months no gifts to her and on valentine day should I give her flowers and gift.
What do you think? Advice?
I am seprated from my wife for 5 months, valentine day is coming...Should I give my wife flowers and gift?
...a gift and flowers, are nice...
...enjoy!
Reply:yes give her as you say it well be kind sensaton from you to one you had spend with her many nice times .this may be return love in heart of both of you
Reply:I dont know if you beat her or threatened to kill her or something but yes, send her some flowers, not a package, she might think its a bomb.
Reply:Is it your wish to reconsile with your wife? If it is, you need to show her that you want to be with her and are ready to set aside your differences and try to make your marriage work. If not, do nothing.
Reply:I do not know why you are seperated from her therefore I cannot advise you if it would be creepy or not.
Reply:Give her your love. What better gift. Valentines is actually based on Saint Valentine. I believe he was put in prison, but still married people through the jail bars. I am Christian and you are muslim, but love is still love! Give her your heart. Ask God to forgive you. Then you forgive yourself (we are not perfect) forgive yourself. Then forgive her. The past is the past. Your time is now! Give her your true honest white heart.
Reply:No. Not if you are actually separated. If you are just in different parts of the world, but not emotionally separated, then you definately should give her something. You are emotionally separated, giving her something will be seen as a desperate attempt to get her back and probably annoy her very badly so would have the opposite intended effect and only make things worse.
Reply:Somali,
My wife really would prefer to have chocolate or something to eat over flowers. She gets upset when they die. I would send her a nice birthday card and write a nice little message inside telling her how you feel about her. The nicest things sometimes are unexpected. Have a wonderful evening. I hope that things all work out.
Thanks,
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Reply:why not hunt her down and cut off her feet. She will burn in hell for leaving you, and Allah will be so proud of you for it.
You will find other women to be your sex slave and servant soon enough. You could stone her as well. Heck the whole nieborhood's male membership will be glad to help.
Reply:have you before given gifts /flowers on other valentine days? and you still in love with your wife, does see speak to you in the 5 months? it could be unwanted by your wife. also it might show her that you still think about her and she may see it as a sign to get back together. if that's what you want then go for it.
Reply:Send her flowers if you still care for her.
Reply:depends on why you where separated.
If you want to get back together and you think she will appreciate the gift, then by all means yes. Otherwise no.
depending on how strict a Muslim she is, you might like to note that Valentines Day is a Catholic custom, and so she might misinterpret that if she is not accustomed to that tradition.
whatever you do, follow your heart
Reply:I would call her first to see how she is and see if there is hope of a reconcilliation. If she responds favorably then yes buy the flowers and gift and good luck.
Reply:Move on. The best gift for both of you.
Reply:If you ever want to be with her again, you'd better.
Reply:Why not? It may or may not have your desired effect, though. Be prepared for whatever reaction she may have.
Reply:buy her a tarsier, if that doesnt work i dont know what will.
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Reply:I don't really know much about Muslim customs, but, if
a) You're the one that decided to separate.
b) You actually want to get back together with her.
I think it's a decent idea.
Reply:Munkee think if you want to reconcile, then yes.
Reply:Here's an easy site to find a thoughtful yet inexpensive gift to have delivered http://www.Online-Florists.Reviews-n-Rat... There are special online coupons for flower delivery, special gift ideas, and fancy chocolates too. I know flowers and chocolates are traditional, but that's what us ladies like! :)
Reply:It sounds like you maybe just wasting your money.
Move on.
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Reply:I did not think muslims got separated why is she gone ...
Reply:That would be a very good idea!
Reply:Depends on the relationship you have with her. Was it an ugly seperation? Was it a mutual agreement? What do you think her reaction will be? What do you want her reaction to be?
Alot of factors.....Ultimately up to you to answer.........
Reply:Well, I'm a Christian. I send my love to you. Perhaps you can send your love to your wife regardless. How it is received may be out of your control but do it with a good heart.
Reply:If you feel like it.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Men if your gf had more money than you would u still buy her gifts/flowers and take her out to diner or expect
her to go "dutch"?
Men if your gf had more money than you would u still buy her gifts/flowers and take her out to diner or expect
The person who makes a lot more should pay more often. But the guy should pay more than his share generally because gender roles are still a part of attraction.
Men if your gf had more money than you would u still buy her gifts/flowers and take her out to diner or expect
The person who makes a lot more should pay more often. But the guy should pay more than his share generally because gender roles are still a part of attraction.
Men if your gf had more money than you would u still buy her gifts/flowers and take her out to diner or expect
her to go "dutch"?
Men if your gf had more money than you would u still buy her gifts/flowers and take her out to diner or expect
Don't expect, and don't assume. Just talk about it. The best surprise is no surprise. You'll have a much nicer evening.
Reply:of course its about courtesy not how much money one has
Reply:be a man and do the right thing, her money is her business.
Reply:still buy her gifts/ flowers and meals which i can afford. if she want an expensive dinner, it time for her to buy me..
Reply:It depends if I was the only Man in her life .
I never worry about what a woman earns the way they do a man .
Men fall for the person not the prospect of a secure lifestyle .
At least that is the way i am .Money doesn`t make a woman attractive ,the person she is - Does.
Yes if I loved her I would buy her gifts and dine her .
Reply:Money should never be the first thing you think about when you think about your woman. You should just love her and when you can treat do so. If you can't afford to take her out then stay in. If she wants to go out anyway then be honest and say you can't afford it this time. She should be happy to treat you if she wants to go out that bad. If she won't treat when you can't then she is just a leach...but be careful that you do not become the leach yourself!
Reply:I thought you bought gifts because you cared about someone.... Because it pleased you to make somene happy.....to see a person that you care about smile.
I would'nt expect her or ask her to go dutch, but if she cares and knows your financial situation, she should offer at times to pay.
Reply:this is a touchy subject for me.. see my bf dont have as much as i do cause of child support.. when he lived with his cousins he got both him and his wife something for birthdays and xmas.. now he live with me ..nothinig.. i get nothing on those holidays..never have in the 3 yrs we have been together .. i keep telling myself i wont get him anything .. last xmas i finally did it and gave him nothing... this bd i will do it to.. i will get his daughter something though..alot of times we go dutch or i will pay or he will.. most of the time i get him something when we go shopping..me i see a pack of cigs once in a while.. or a drink
Reply:am i broke or am i doing okay money wise?if okay id still buy gifts and ask her to dinner.
DONT FORGET TO ASK THE GUY OUT SOMETIMES were humans still arent we?
Reply:you need to do some of the paying yourself. As for DUTCH that will come when she feels that you appreciate her for her and not her money. I'm not saying do it all the time, but maybe it might be the little things that count with this one....holding hands, opening the car door, calling because you want to...etc...
Reply:how about taking turns paying when you go out and i realy don't see how her having more money than me would have anything to do with the price of the gifts i bought her.
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Men if your gf had more money than you would u still buy her gifts/flowers and take her out to diner or expect
Don't expect, and don't assume. Just talk about it. The best surprise is no surprise. You'll have a much nicer evening.
Reply:of course its about courtesy not how much money one has
Reply:be a man and do the right thing, her money is her business.
Reply:still buy her gifts/ flowers and meals which i can afford. if she want an expensive dinner, it time for her to buy me..
Reply:It depends if I was the only Man in her life .
I never worry about what a woman earns the way they do a man .
Men fall for the person not the prospect of a secure lifestyle .
At least that is the way i am .Money doesn`t make a woman attractive ,the person she is - Does.
Yes if I loved her I would buy her gifts and dine her .
Reply:Money should never be the first thing you think about when you think about your woman. You should just love her and when you can treat do so. If you can't afford to take her out then stay in. If she wants to go out anyway then be honest and say you can't afford it this time. She should be happy to treat you if she wants to go out that bad. If she won't treat when you can't then she is just a leach...but be careful that you do not become the leach yourself!
Reply:I thought you bought gifts because you cared about someone.... Because it pleased you to make somene happy.....to see a person that you care about smile.
I would'nt expect her or ask her to go dutch, but if she cares and knows your financial situation, she should offer at times to pay.
Reply:this is a touchy subject for me.. see my bf dont have as much as i do cause of child support.. when he lived with his cousins he got both him and his wife something for birthdays and xmas.. now he live with me ..nothinig.. i get nothing on those holidays..never have in the 3 yrs we have been together .. i keep telling myself i wont get him anything .. last xmas i finally did it and gave him nothing... this bd i will do it to.. i will get his daughter something though..alot of times we go dutch or i will pay or he will.. most of the time i get him something when we go shopping..me i see a pack of cigs once in a while.. or a drink
Reply:am i broke or am i doing okay money wise?if okay id still buy gifts and ask her to dinner.
DONT FORGET TO ASK THE GUY OUT SOMETIMES were humans still arent we?
Reply:you need to do some of the paying yourself. As for DUTCH that will come when she feels that you appreciate her for her and not her money. I'm not saying do it all the time, but maybe it might be the little things that count with this one....holding hands, opening the car door, calling because you want to...etc...
Reply:how about taking turns paying when you go out and i realy don't see how her having more money than me would have anything to do with the price of the gifts i bought her.
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Does anyone know any flower/ gift shops online, that will deliver to anywhere in the world?
My boyfriend is staying in a hotel in Dubai over Valentine's day on business and I wanted to put something in his hotel room before he got there. Does anyone know of any gift or flower business/shops that are online that would deliver to that location? Something at a fairly reasonable price too. Thank you!
Does anyone know any flower/ gift shops online, that will deliver to anywhere in the world?
at Flora 2000 and get a 10% off coupon for them at http://www.007coupons.com/Gifts---Flower... to save money
Reply:hey there mate
I just found out a website that gives away free hallmark gift cards
I think its 100 bucks to spend on flowers.. with that budget you could easily get a very unique and exotic bouquet or something like that...
here is the link to the website: http://www.mb01.com/lnk.asp?o=1356%26amp;c=191...
good luck :)
Does anyone know any flower/ gift shops online, that will deliver to anywhere in the world?
at Flora 2000 and get a 10% off coupon for them at http://www.007coupons.com/Gifts---Flower... to save money
Reply:hey there mate
I just found out a website that gives away free hallmark gift cards
I think its 100 bucks to spend on flowers.. with that budget you could easily get a very unique and exotic bouquet or something like that...
here is the link to the website: http://www.mb01.com/lnk.asp?o=1356%26amp;c=191...
good luck :)
What is a good way to give people Valentine gifts without spluring?
I was thinking maybe cute friendship rings I found that we had when we were kids. Flowers, are a possibility but I can only spend so much on a number of people. Any easy homemade gifts that don't look cheap and or a squalor. Thank you!!
What is a good way to give people Valentine gifts without spluring?
here is what I would do. Go to the craft store and find somethings to paint OR make bubbles to hang which is fun. You need ballons (round ones), colorful yarn, glue.
You Blow up the ballon to whatever size you want
Put all the glue in the bowl.
Take the yard and put some in a bowl without tangling it. Normally I take the ball and put in on one side of the bowl and drag the yarn through the bowl as I use it. The yarn needs to be totally soaked with glue
With the glue wet yarn wrap it around the ballon in a diiferent directions. So you can still see the balloon and don't use all the yarn. There should be space where you can see in and there doesnt have to be a pattern unless you want one.
Wait for it to dry.
Pop the balloon and carefully pick the pieces off. At the top put sting to hang it.
Now you can see inside the ball you have made. Inside you can put a picture. Get pink grass and put valentine candy in it. Stuff a small beanie baby in there OR real/silk flowers and make an arangement on the inside
It can hang from anywhere and can be used as a decoration in a childs room, kitchen, bedroom, bathroom. etc
I have seen this same project only people use clear spray paint instead of glue and spray in on the yard and balloon.
Reply:Spluring is a made up worth that I'll take to mean spewage of bliss. Thus, don't give large females vibrating valentines cards if you dont want to get your shoes wet.
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What is a good way to give people Valentine gifts without spluring?
here is what I would do. Go to the craft store and find somethings to paint OR make bubbles to hang which is fun. You need ballons (round ones), colorful yarn, glue.
You Blow up the ballon to whatever size you want
Put all the glue in the bowl.
Take the yard and put some in a bowl without tangling it. Normally I take the ball and put in on one side of the bowl and drag the yarn through the bowl as I use it. The yarn needs to be totally soaked with glue
With the glue wet yarn wrap it around the ballon in a diiferent directions. So you can still see the balloon and don't use all the yarn. There should be space where you can see in and there doesnt have to be a pattern unless you want one.
Wait for it to dry.
Pop the balloon and carefully pick the pieces off. At the top put sting to hang it.
Now you can see inside the ball you have made. Inside you can put a picture. Get pink grass and put valentine candy in it. Stuff a small beanie baby in there OR real/silk flowers and make an arangement on the inside
It can hang from anywhere and can be used as a decoration in a childs room, kitchen, bedroom, bathroom. etc
I have seen this same project only people use clear spray paint instead of glue and spray in on the yard and balloon.
Reply:Spluring is a made up worth that I'll take to mean spewage of bliss. Thus, don't give large females vibrating valentines cards if you dont want to get your shoes wet.
What's the best way to preserve already dead/dried, unpressed flowers?
I've already hung the flowers to dry them, and I am now looking for a solution to preserving them so the petals will not crack or fall off were I to put them in a vase or gift them.
What's the best way to preserve already dead/dried, unpressed flowers?
Too late. Just try to avoid jostling them too much.
What's the best way to preserve already dead/dried, unpressed flowers?
Too late. Just try to avoid jostling them too much.
What are the best and least expensive pink flowers for mother's day?
I donated to a breast cancer organization for my mother and my aunt's mother's day gifts. To not just hand them a piece of paper, I had the idea of also getting them pink flowers. Which ones should I be looking for that are inexpensive yet beautiful for mother's day?
I could spare some cash but I gave up most of my money on the donation for both women......
What are the best and least expensive pink flowers for mother's day?
I would get each one a pink gerber (or gerbera) daisy. They are a little more expensive, but they are beautiful so you can get away with giving just one :-)
They are nice and big, and the stems are thick so you could even jazz it up by wrapping the stem in a pink ribbon and attaching your own little tag that says something like "Happy Mothers Day...A Donation was made in your name..." or whatever you want.
Reply:Carnations would probably be the cheapest, but those are so over used. If that makes sense lol. Neither as pretty as other options.
I know that some shops use colored dye on daisies, those are cheap and would look pretty in pink.
Gerbera daisies are also gorge
Reply:Go for a bright pink gerbera daisy. Those are cute, you would only need one, a little nicer than a carnation.
Reply:Best value: mixed pink carnations!
They are cheap, last a good while, smell great but not overpowering, and are really pretty!
I realy like them - had them in my wedding bouquet because I like them so much!
Reply:i saw alot of nice tulips over the weekend at sam's club they were mostly pink.. very season appropriate
Reply:probably carnations
Reply:the ones you steal from your neighbor's yard
I could spare some cash but I gave up most of my money on the donation for both women......
What are the best and least expensive pink flowers for mother's day?
I would get each one a pink gerber (or gerbera) daisy. They are a little more expensive, but they are beautiful so you can get away with giving just one :-)
They are nice and big, and the stems are thick so you could even jazz it up by wrapping the stem in a pink ribbon and attaching your own little tag that says something like "Happy Mothers Day...A Donation was made in your name..." or whatever you want.
Reply:Carnations would probably be the cheapest, but those are so over used. If that makes sense lol. Neither as pretty as other options.
I know that some shops use colored dye on daisies, those are cheap and would look pretty in pink.
Gerbera daisies are also gorge
Reply:Go for a bright pink gerbera daisy. Those are cute, you would only need one, a little nicer than a carnation.
Reply:Best value: mixed pink carnations!
They are cheap, last a good while, smell great but not overpowering, and are really pretty!
I realy like them - had them in my wedding bouquet because I like them so much!
Reply:i saw alot of nice tulips over the weekend at sam's club they were mostly pink.. very season appropriate
Reply:probably carnations
Reply:the ones you steal from your neighbor's yard
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